
TM
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults in 18 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Authority Fawning

A survival-based appeasement response where you over-accommodate authority figures to stay safe, avoid conflict, or secure belonging.
• You read the leader’s mood and adjust quickly to keep things smooth.
• You agree, praise, or comply even when something feels off.
• You downplay your needs and boundaries to avoid punishment, shame, or exclusion.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
• Chronic anxiety and hypervigilance, especially around authority, evaluation, or “spiritual correction.”
• Weakening trust in your own perceptions as approval becomes the main safety signal.
• Increased susceptibility to exploitation due to automatic compliance and fear of disapproval.