Backslider

A derogatory term for someone who is seen as regressing spiritually or failing to maintain religious standards

• You stop attending church and are warned that you are “falling away.”

• You resume previous lifestyle choices (e.g., dating outside the faith) and are judged harshly.

• You are told that your suffering is due to your disobedience.

Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)

• Persistent guilt cycles may arise, as attempts to "redeem" oneself through good behavior can reinforce feelings of spiritual failure.

• Religious OCD tendencies can develop, where intrusive thoughts lead to compulsive spiritual practices to regain favor.

• Emotional numbness or despair could result from repeated messaging that one's value is conditional on adherence.