
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (in Counseling),
Licensed Mental Health Counselor Providing Virtual Therapy to Adult Clients
in the States of AK, AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, ID, IN, LA, MA, ME, NV, OR, SC, TX, UT, VT, WI & WY, USA
Specializing in Supporting Clients who are Newly Secular or Deconstructing from High Control Religions, Groups or Cults: Religious Trauma / Faith Crisis, Religious Deconstruction / Purity Culture / Religious Residue / Mixed-Faith Relationships / Secular Therapy
BITE Model of Authoritarian Control
A framework created by Dr. Steven Hassan to describe authoritarian control in high-demand systems. To learn more: BITE Model PDF
B – Behavior Control
You’re told exactly how to dress and act to prove your obedience.
You're discouraged or forbidden from spending time with people outside the group.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Personal boundaries may be difficult to define or maintain.
Independent decision-making may feel overwhelming or insecure.
Natural self-expression may be suppressed in behavior, clothing, or interests.
I – Information Control
You aren’t allowed to read certain books or websites because they criticize your religion.
Only specific leaders are allowed to explain or interpret teachings for you.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Mainstream or diverse sources of information may be distrusted.
Encountering different viewpoints may evoke fear, guilt, or internal resistance.
Critical thinking skills may be underdeveloped due to restricted exposure.
T – Thought Control
You’re made to feel sinful or rebellious for having doubts or asking hard questions.
You're taught that anyone outside your group is deceived or evil, and you're expected to think the same way.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Intuitive thoughts may conflict with internalized teachings, creating psychological tension.
Shame may surround intellectual curiosity or self-inquiry.
Independent belief formation may be difficult or fraught with guilt.
E – Emotional Control
You feel intense guilt or fear whenever you think about leaving or disagreeing.
You’re taught to feel ashamed when you question, speak up, or think independently.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Chronic guilt or shame may persist regardless of actions.
Emotional suppression or numbness can become a coping mechanism.
High emotional reactivity may develop in response to perceived disloyalty or dissent.