
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (in Counseling),
Licensed Mental Health Counselor Providing Virtual Therapy to Adult Clients
in the States of AK, AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, ID, IN, LA, MA, ME, NV, OR, SC, TX, UT, VT, WI & WY, USA
Specializing in Supporting Clients who are Newly Secular or Deconstructing from High Control Religions, Groups or Cults: Religious Trauma / Faith Crisis, Religious Deconstruction / Purity Culture / Religious Residue / Mixed-Faith Relationships / Secular Therapy
Video Interviews
I work with clients from a wide variety of high control religions, groups and cults - these two interviews are on a YouTube channel dedicated to the Ex-Jehovah's Witness experience but the vast majority of what we talk about also applies to other groups.
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Unfortunately we did not realize until after that the internet connection for the first video was a bit spotty - apologies for that! It will help if you turn on Closed Captions by clicking on the 'CC' button at the bottom right of the YouTube window - that way you can have the subtitles on while you watch.
For those of you who would like to have the direct urls, here they are:
Part I: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Npffi6OzYXc
Part II: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_pLXCdLRf0
A big shout out to Justin from ExJW Diaries for having me on his channel. :)
Part I topics (1 hour and 56 minutes)
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Client Autonomy
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How High Control Religions, Groups & Cults Work
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The BITE Model
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Degrees of Control
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Degrees of Religiosity
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How Groups Prepare you for Compliance
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Fear, Guilt and Shame (the ‘Three Food Groups’)
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Why Shunning Works so Well as a Threat
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The Power of Language
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Exclusive Truth Claims
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The Accent Analogy
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The (Existential) Elephants in the Room
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The Dome Analogy
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The Wizard of Oz Analogy
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Beliefs vs Control Exercise
Part II topics (1 hour and 33 minutes)
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Religious Trauma
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Religious Residue
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CPTSD (Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder)
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Purity Culture and Sexual Shame (for Women, Men and Members of the LGBTQ community)
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The Stages of Leaving
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The United Nations Declaration of Human Rights (UNDHR)