
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Clergy Kid / Preacher’s Kid / Pastor’s Kid / Bishop's Kid / Elder’s Kid
Children raised by religious leaders such as pastors, preachers, elders, or bishops, often under high expectations and public scrutiny within religious communities
You felt pressured to be a moral "role model" at all times.
You couldn’t express doubts without fear of shaming your family.
Your behavior was constantly monitored by the congregation.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Chronic performance pressure may lead to anxiety.
Identity development may be complicated by strong associations with family and faith.
Guilt or shame can arise when questioning inherited beliefs.