
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Divine Attachment Figures
Religious figures who serve as psychological attachment figures, often replacing or overriding human attachment needs
You are told a divine figure is akin to a parent who loves you more than your actual human parents.
You seek emotional comfort exclusively from prayer instead of reaching out to people.
You fear abandonment by the deity more than by any human being.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Displacement of emotional needs from human relationships may occur.
Hypervigilance about “displeasing” the divine figure can develop.
Maladaptive coping strategies could be based solely on spiritual bypassing.