
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Doctrinal Grief
Emotional mourning over losing long-held theological beliefs or religious frameworks
You miss believing in something that used to comfort you.
You feel sadness when others still find joy in beliefs you no longer hold.
You sometimes wish you could “go back” to when things felt certain.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Depression symptoms may be linked to a perceived loss of meaning.
Disenfranchised grief, or grief not acknowledged by the community, can occur.
Relationship strain could result from others not understanding your “loss.”