
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Doctrine over Personhood
When church teachings matter more than your actual story, feelings, or needs
You were told to stay in a harmful marriage because divorce was a sin.
You were ignored or silenced when your identity didn’t fit the church’s rules.
You felt like your pain didn’t matter if it didn’t match their beliefs.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
A sense of worth may become linked to conformity rather than selfhood.
Believing one’s own needs and voice matter may become difficult.
Deep confusion or shame around identity may take root.