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Doctrine over Personhood

When church teachings matter more than your actual story, feelings, or needs

  • You were told to stay in a harmful marriage because divorce was a sin.

  • You were ignored or silenced when your identity didn’t fit the church’s rules.

  • You felt like your pain didn’t matter if it didn’t match their beliefs.

Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)

  • A sense of worth may become linked to conformity rather than selfhood.

  • Believing one’s own needs and voice matter may become difficult.

  • Deep confusion or shame around identity may take root.

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