
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Double Bind

A no-win situation created by contradictory demands where any response leads to punishment or shame.
You are criticized whether you comply or resist.
You feel trapped, confused, and unable to choose correctly.
Over time, you stop trusting your own reasoning.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
· Living in no-win situations can teach that there is no safe choice.
· Decision-making may trigger paralysis, anxiety, or shutdown.
· Healing involves slowly learning that choice can exist without punishment.