
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (in Counseling),
Licensed Mental Health Counselor Providing Virtual Therapy to Adult Clients
in the States of AK, AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, ID, IN, LA, MA, ME, NV, OR, SC, TX, UT, VT, WI & WY, USA
Specializing in Supporting Clients who are Newly Secular or Deconstructing from High Control Religions, Groups or Cults: Religious Trauma / Faith Crisis, Religious Deconstruction / Purity Culture / Religious Residue / Mixed-Faith Relationships / Secular Therapy
Fading
A gradual drifting away from religious beliefs or practices, often unnoticed at first. It’s not an abrupt rejection, but a slow detachment that can be emotional, spiritual, or behavioral.
You used to pray every morning and night, but now weeks go by without a single prayer.
You still go to church with your family, but you mostly sit in silence, feeling like an outsider.
You used to feel inspired by reading sacred texts, but now you skim them without focus.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Fading can cause tension with family or religious peers who notice your shift.
You might fear judgment, experience guilt, or feel pressured to "fake it," leading to emotional stress.
The loss of meaning or spiritual framework can trigger sadness, depression, or existential fear.