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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults in 18 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Mystical Manipulation

A control tactic where leaders frame their preferences as divine revelation or spiritual “special knowledge,” making disagreement feel like disobediance.
• You’re told “God told me…” to justify decisions that benefit authority or the group.
• You learn that questioning spiritual claims is treated as rebellion or lack of faith.
• You see coincidences and emotions used as “proof” to pressure your choices.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
• Erosion of personal agency and difficulty trusting your own discernment.
• Anxiety and moral injury from feeling coerced by “God” rather than a person.
• Increased trauma symptoms when spiritual language is used to justify boundary violations.