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Obedience Conditioning

Training that equates worth, safety, or goodness with submission.

  • Compliance feels safer to you than autonomy does.

  • Disagreement triggers fear or shame in you

  • You have come to associate obedience with moral value.

Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)

  • Autonomy may trigger guilt or fear.

  • Saying no can feel unsafe even in appropriate situations.

  • Recovery includes practicing choice in small, supported ways.

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