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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Obedience Conditioning
Training that equates worth, safety, or goodness with submission.
Compliance feels safer to you than autonomy does.
Disagreement triggers fear or shame in you
You have come to associate obedience with moral value.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Autonomy may trigger guilt or fear.
Saying no can feel unsafe even in appropriate situations.
Recovery includes practicing choice in small, supported ways.
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