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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
LPC / LMHC · Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Licensed in AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, ID, IN, LA, ME, MA, OR, SC, TX, UT, VT, WI & WY
Obedience Conditioning

Training that equates worth, safety, or goodness with submission.
Compliance feels safer to you than autonomy does.
Disagreement triggers fear or shame in you
You have come to associate obedience with moral value.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Autonomy may trigger guilt or fear.
Saying no can feel unsafe even in appropriate situations.
Recovery includes practicing choice in small, supported ways.