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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
LPC / LMHC · Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Licensed in AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, ID, IN, LA, ME, MA, OR, SC, TX, UT, VT, WI & WY
Piety Performance

Acting super “spiritual” or religious to appear holy or earn approval
You felt pressure to pray out loud in a certain way.
You raised your hands in worship even when you didn’t feel it.
You shared spiritual insights to seem more faithful.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
A sense of disconnection from authenticity may develop.
Self-worth might become tied to perceived spiritual performance.
Shame may arise when behaviors no longer align with external expectations.