Pre-Group Identity

The sense of self that existed before the immersion in control or coercion. This term could also be called ‘pre-control,’ with clients who are born in having a pre-group identity prior to the heavy indoctrination which took place in childhood.

• You recall traits or interests that were discouraged.

• Reconnecting with early parts brings grief and relief.

• You begin to recognize what was conditioned versus authentic.

Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)

• Reconnection may bring comfort alongside grief.

• Early traits or interests may resurface as resources rather than destinations.

• These parts can support identity reconstruction without idealizing the past.