
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Purity Culture–Induced Vaginismus / Painful Intercourse
Sexual pain or involuntary vaginal muscle tightness caused or worsened by strict religious or cultural teachings
You grew up being told sex is sinful until marriage, so on your wedding night, your body froze and you experienced sharp pain during intimacy.
Even though you wanted to connect with your partner, the fear and guilt you internalized from purity teachings made sex painful and emotionally distressing.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Trauma responses or dissociation during intimacy may arise.
Physical pain during sex may be linked to unresolved guilt or conditioning.
Shame may delay or prevent seeking medical or therapeutic support.