
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (in Counseling),
Licensed Mental Health Counselor Providing Virtual Therapy to Adult Clients
in the States of AK, AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, ID, IN, LA, MA, ME, NV, OR, SC, TX, UT, VT, WI & WY, USA
Specializing in Supporting Clients who are Newly Secular or Deconstructing from High Control Religions, Groups or Cults: Religious Trauma / Faith Crisis, Religious Deconstruction / Purity Culture / Religious Residue / Mixed-Faith Relationships / Secular Therapy
Purity Culture (for Men)
Purity culture teaches men to control their sexual desires as a sign of strength and spiritual leadership
You must control your sexual desires to prove your strength and manliness.
You are responsible for leading others, especially women, in purity and holiness.
You need to fight against temptation every day like it’s a spiritual battle.
You should join accountability groups to confess your struggles and stay accountable.
You must avoid looking at or objectifying women, or you’re giving in to sin.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Shame or depression may result from internal conflict over sexual thoughts.
Emotional isolation may emerge due to difficulty expressing vulnerability.
Sexual functioning may be affected by anxiety or moral confusion.
Intimacy may suffer due to unrealistic expectations or spiritualized performance.
Addictive or secretive behaviors may develop under pressure to appear "pure."