
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Purity Culture (for Men)
Purity culture teaches men to control their sexual desires as a sign of strength and spiritual leadership
You must control your sexual desires to prove your strength and manliness.
You are responsible for leading others, especially women, in purity and holiness.
You need to fight against temptation every day like it’s a spiritual battle.
You should join accountability groups to confess your struggles and stay accountable.
You must avoid looking at or objectifying women, or you’re giving in to sin.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Shame or depression may result from internal conflict over sexual thoughts.
Emotional isolation may emerge due to difficulty expressing vulnerability.
Sexual functioning may be affected by anxiety or moral confusion.
Intimacy may suffer due to unrealistic expectations or spiritualized performance.
Addictive or secretive behaviors may develop under pressure to appear "pure."