
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Purity Culture (for Women)
Purity culture teaches women that their worth depends on maintaining virginity and modesty until marriage
You must keep your virginity until marriage because your worth depends on it.
You need to dress modestly at all times to avoid tempting men.
You should guard your heart and avoid deep emotional attachments with men before marriage.
Your sexuality is a gift meant only for your future husband.
If you stray from purity, you risk losing favor and facing judgment.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Self-worth may be diminished, leading to poor body image and self-esteem.
Expressing sexual autonomy may provoke guilt or internal conflict.
Intimacy and relationships may become anxiety-inducing.
Survivors of sexual abuse may experience intensified trauma responses.
Boundary-setting may become difficult due to chronic people-pleasing or shame.