
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Secondhand Religious Trauma
Emotional pain caused by witnessing how religion has hurt someone you love
You watched a friend get kicked out of their church for coming out.
You carry deep sadness over how your family was treated in faith spaces.
You feel rage or grief over stories of abuse or control.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Emotional overwhelm or helplessness may result from witnessing harm.
Difficulty separating personal pain from others’ trauma may arise.
Grieving and processing vicarious trauma may be necessary for healing.