
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Sexual Suppression Cycle
The cyclical pattern of repressing sexual thoughts or behaviors due to shame, followed by guilt and intensified need for control
You feel intense shame after experiencing sexual thoughts.
You repeatedly confess masturbation as a spiritual failure.
You avoid dating to “stay pure,” then feel isolated and confused.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Sexual dysfunction or repression often occurs.
Obsessive thoughts about sexuality can develop.
Identity confusion and emotional distress frequently arise.