
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Spiritual Bypassing
When you're encouraged to use spirituality to avoid dealing with real emotional pain
You were told to "pray it away" instead of seeking support for your trauma or depression.
You quoted scripture to yourself to suppress pain, instead of acknowledging it.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Emotional needs may be minimized or dismissed, resulting in guilt for seeking support.
Healing may be delayed due to suppression of grief, anger, or trauma under religious rationales.
Disconnection from authentic emotional experience may hinder personal growth and healing.