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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults in 18 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Stein’s Theory of Totalist Indoctrination

A framework describing how high-control systems reshape you through totalizing influence across identity, relationships, information, time, and meaning.
• You’re pressured to reorganize your entire life around the group’s worldview and demands.
• You learn that compliance equals safety and belonging, while independence equals danger.
• You experience escalating immersion until the group becomes your main reference for reality.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
• Identity foreclosure: reduced sense of self outside the system and fear of autonomy.
• Trauma symptoms from chronic control, threat, and loss of agency.
• Post-exit disorientation: grief, decision paralysis, and difficulty trusting your perceptions.