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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
LPC / LMHC · Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Licensed in AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, ID, IN, LA, ME, MA, OR, SC, TX, UT, VT, WI & WY
Use of Language to Control
When words are redefined to influence how you think, feel, or behave
You were taught that “obedience” equals love, even when it meant silencing yourself.
You noticed how people called you an “apostate” just for thinking differently, making you feel like the enemy.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Confusion and self-doubt may result from language being used manipulatively.
Expressing beliefs or boundaries may feel difficult due to the weaponization of words.
Fear of being labeled or condemned can prevent honest self-expression.