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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults in 18 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Cultic Control

A pattern of high-control influence that restricts your autonomy by managing information, relationships, identity, and behavior to serve the group’s agenda.
• You’re taught to outsource major decisions to leaders, doctrine, or “discernment” authorities.
• You’re encouraged to distrust outsiders and prioritize the group above your prior commitments.
• You’re rewarded for conformity and subtly punished for independent thought or boundaries.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
• Narrowed identity and reduced tolerance for ambiguity, with fear attached to exploring alternatives.
• Chronic guilt, anxiety, and compulsive self-monitoring to avoid social/spiritual penalties.
• Social dependency and isolation that make exit feel like losing your entire support system.