DARVO

A common abuse response pattern: Deny the harm, Attack the harmed person, and Reverse Victim and Offender.

• When you name harm, you are accused of being divisive or sinful.

• Your character is questioned instead of the behavior being addressed.

• The institution portrays itself as persecuted or misunderstood.

Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)

• Exposure to this pattern can erode confidence in memory, perception, and emotional responses.

• Confusion may arise about whether harm actually occurred.

• Naming the pattern often helps restore clarity and self-trust.