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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
LPC / LMHC · Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Licensed in AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, ID, IN, LA, ME, MA, OR, SC, TX, UT, VT, WI & WY
Duluth Model of Power and Control

A framework developed to understand patterns of abusive behavior in relationships, particularly how abusers use power and control to dominate their partners.
For more: https://www.theduluthmodel.org/wheels/faqs-about-the-wheels/
The Wheel contains 8 spokes.
Using Intimidation
Using Emotional Abuse
Using Isolation
Minimizing, Denying and Blaming
Using Children
Using Male Privilege
Using Economic Abuse
Using Coercion and Threats
In a religious setting, this can look like:
Using scripture to justify abuse
Religious isolation
Spiritual shaming
Controlling reproduction
Manipulation by religious leaders
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Abusive relational patterns may go unrecognized.
Decision-making capacity may feel compromised or inaccessible.
Fear of independence or speaking out may prevent seeking help.