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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults in 18 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Duluth Model of Power and Control

A framework developed to understand patterns of abusive behavior in relationships, particularly how abusers use power and control to dominate their partners.
For more: https://www.theduluthmodel.org/wheels/faqs-about-the-wheels/
The Wheel contains 8 spokes.
Using Intimidation
Using Emotional Abuse
Using Isolation
Minimizing, Denying and Blaming
Using Children
Using Male Privilege
Using Economic Abuse
Using Coercion and Threats
In a religious setting, this can look like:
Using scripture to justify abuse
Religious isolation
Spiritual shaming
Controlling reproduction
Manipulation by religious leaders
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Abusive relational patterns may go unrecognized.
Decision-making capacity may feel compromised or inaccessible.
Fear of independence or speaking out may prevent seeking help.