
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Duluth Model of Power and Control
A framework developed to understand patterns of abusive behavior in relationships, particularly how abusers use power and control to dominate their partners.
For more: https://www.theduluthmodel.org/wheels/faqs-about-the-wheels/
The Wheel contains 8 spokes.
Using Intimidation
Using Emotional Abuse
Using Isolation
Minimizing, Denying and Blaming
Using Children
Using Male Privilege
Using Economic Abuse
Using Coercion and Threats
In a religious setting, this can look like:
Using scripture to justify abuse
Religious isolation
Spiritual shaming
Controlling reproduction
Manipulation by religious leaders
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Abusive relational patterns may go unrecognized.
Decision-making capacity may feel compromised or inaccessible.
Fear of independence or speaking out may prevent seeking help.