
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
False Agency
The appearance of choice within a system where outcomes are tightly controlled.
You are told you are free, but only approved options are acceptable.
Disobedience is framed as a choice with severe consequences.
You internalize blame for outcomes you could not realistically avoid.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Responsibility may be internalized for outcomes that were never truly optional.
Recognizing false agency can bring grief alongside relief.
Rebuilding agency involves learning what real choice feels like in the body and in relationships.