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False Agency

The appearance of choice within a system where outcomes are tightly controlled.

  • You are told you are free, but only approved options are acceptable.

  • Disobedience is framed as a choice with severe consequences.

  • You internalize blame for outcomes you could not realistically avoid.

Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)

  • Responsibility may be internalized for outcomes that were never truly optional.

  • Recognizing false agency can bring grief alongside relief.

  • Rebuilding agency involves learning what real choice feels like in the body and in relationships.

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