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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
LPC / LMHC · Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Licensed in AK, AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, ID, IN, LA, ME, MA, OR, SC, TX, UT, VT, WI & WY
False Dichotomy

A thinking trap that forces your reality into two options, erasing nuance to push loyalty and compliance.
• You’re told you’re either fully committed or you’re against God/the group.
• You’re pressured to treat uncertainty as failure instead of a normal part of growth.
• You learn that mixed feelings, partial agreement, or gradual change “don’t count.”
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
• Rigid black-and-white thinking that increases shame and anxiety.
• Relationship strain from “us vs. them” sorting of people and ideas.
• Reduced capacity for healthy ambiguity, reflection, and complex problem-solving.