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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults in 18 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
False Dichotomy

A thinking trap that forces your reality into two options, erasing nuance to push loyalty and compliance.
• You’re told you’re either fully committed or you’re against God/the group.
• You’re pressured to treat uncertainty as failure instead of a normal part of growth.
• You learn that mixed feelings, partial agreement, or gradual change “don’t count.”
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
• Rigid black-and-white thinking that increases shame and anxiety.
• Relationship strain from “us vs. them” sorting of people and ideas.
• Reduced capacity for healthy ambiguity, reflection, and complex problem-solving.