
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Fear-Based Loyalty
Allegiance maintained primarily through threats of punishment, damnation, or loss, rather than genuine belief or connection.
You stayed in your faith out of fear of hell, not love.
You were told leaving the community would bring spiritual or real-world consequences.
You feared divine wrath for asking difficult questions.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Heightened anxiety and existential dread.
Difficulty forming authentic belief systems.
Complicated grief or trauma after leaving religious systems.