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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults in 18 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Humiliation Trauma

A trauma pattern created when your dignity is repeatedly violated through shaming, degradation, or coerced exposure—especially in the name of “growth.”
• You’re publicly corrected, mocked, or pressured into confession to regain standing.
• You learn belonging is conditional and can be removed through shame.
• You internalize that pain is proof you “needed” the humiliation.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
• Complex trauma symptoms: hypervigilance, dissociation, intrusive shame memories.
• Social anxiety and fear responses around authority or group settings.
• Long-term boundary difficulty and identity fragmentation (“good self/bad self” split).