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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
LPC / LMHC · Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Licensed in AK, AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, ID, IN, LA, ME, MA, OR, SC, TX, UT, VT, WI & WY
Institutionalized Shame

Shame that is embedded, normalized, and reinforced by a religious system.
You feel defective for normal thoughts or desires.
Shame is used on you as motivation or spiritual correction.
You carry a sense of moral failure even after leaving.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Shame taught by a system can persist long after beliefs change.
A sense of being “wrong” may linger without a clear reason.
Healing involves recognizing that shame was learned, not earned.