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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults in 18 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Institutionalized Shame

Shame that is embedded, normalized, and reinforced by a religious system.
You feel defective for normal thoughts or desires.
Shame is used on you as motivation or spiritual correction.
You carry a sense of moral failure even after leaving.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Shame taught by a system can persist long after beliefs change.
A sense of being “wrong” may linger without a clear reason.
Healing involves recognizing that shame was learned, not earned.