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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults in 18 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Mixed-Faith Parenting

A family dynamic where two parents hold different religious (or spiritual) commitments, requiring intentional agreements to prevent children from being used as leverage.
• You navigate competing values, rituals, and rules without undermining each other.
• You might be pressured (by family/community) to “win” the child’s allegiance to one worldview.
• You try to protect the child’s emotional safety when belief differences create conflict.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
• Chronic stress and resentment if one parent’s faith community demands exclusivity.
• Loyalty binds in children (feeling they must choose a parent or “choose God”).
• Increased risk of anxiety in kids when love/approval becomes tied to belief performance.