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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Mixed-Faith Parenting

A family dynamic where two parents hold different religious (or spiritual) commitments, requiring intentional agreements to prevent children from being used as leverage.
• You navigate competing values, rituals, and rules without undermining each other.
• You might be pressured (by family/community) to “win” the child’s allegiance to one worldview.
• You try to protect the child’s emotional safety when belief differences create conflict.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
• Chronic stress and resentment if one parent’s faith community demands exclusivity.
• Loyalty binds in children (feeling they must choose a parent or “choose God”).
• Increased risk of anxiety in kids when love/approval becomes tied to belief performance.