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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults in 18 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Prioritization of Initial Beliefs

A cognitive “first story wins” pattern where your earliest explanation becomes the anchor, and later evidence gets forced to fit it.
• You treat your first impression or early teaching as the baseline “truth” everything else must match.
• You interpret new information through that original lens, even when it doesn’t fit well.
• You feel pressure to defend the initial story because changing it would threaten identity, belonging, or certainty.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
• Reduced cognitive flexibility and increased rigidity around doctrine or leader narratives.
• Heightened shame or fear when reality conflicts with the “first truth.”
• Prolonged attachment to harmful systems because updating beliefs feels like betrayal.