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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults in 18 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Situational Vulnerability

A life state that makes you more open to influence because you need safety, meaning, belonging, or stability right now.
• You’re going through grief, trauma, illness, divorce, relocation, or identity transition.
• You feel lonely or overwhelmed, so certainty and community become especially compelling.
• You accept rapid commitments because relief feels like proof the group is “right.”
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
• Increased risk of coercion, dependency, and fast-tracked identity fusion with the group.
• Heightened shame if needs are later reframed as weakness or sin.
• Complicated recovery when support was conditional and becomes a control lever.