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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults in 18 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Social Proof

A persuasion mechanism where you treat the group’s confidence, size, or consensus as evidence something is true or safe.
• You assume “so many people can’t be wrong,” especially when everyone looks convinced.
• You follow norms because dissent risks shame, correction, or exclusion.
• You copy the group’s language, emotions, and behaviors to stay connected.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
• Self-silencing and reduced independent judgment under conformity pressure.
• Heightened anxiety around disagreement or being singled out.
• Increased commitment to harmful norms because “everyone does it.”