
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (Counseling)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adult clients in 19 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Spiritual Narcissism
Using religion to feel superior, control others, or get praise for being “holy.”
A leader acted like they were always right because they “heard it directly from above.”
Someone used their “faith” to shame or manipulate you.
You felt like others were competing to be the most “spiritual.”
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Emotional manipulation or spiritual diminishment may occur.
Shame may be internalized from judgment by perceived spiritual authorities.
Clarity may come from separating genuine spirituality from performance or control.