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Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar
PhD in Counseling · Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling
LPC / LMHC · Licensed Mental Health Counselor offering virtual therapy to adults in 18 U.S. states
Working with people who are questioning, deconstructing, or leaving high-control religions, groups, or cults
Theology of Suffering

Beliefs about why pain and hardship exist, and how they relate to faith
You were told your suffering was a “test” to grow your faith.
You believed that you were being punished whenever bad things happened.
You were praised for staying silent in pain because it meant you were strong in your faith.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Difficulty may arise in expressing pain or asking for help.
Self-blame can develop for events or hardships beyond personal control.
Shame may be felt for struggling instead of “suffering well.”