
Dr. Grisel Lopez-Escobar, PhD (in Counseling),
Licensed Mental Health Counselor Providing Virtual Therapy to Adult Clients
in the States of AK, AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, ID, IN, LA, MA, ME, NV, OR, SC, TX, UT, VT, WI & WY, USA
Specializing in Supporting Clients who are Newly Secular or Deconstructing from High Control Religions, Groups or Cults: Religious Trauma / Faith Crisis, Religious Deconstruction / Purity Culture / Religious Residue / Mixed-Faith Relationships / Secular Therapy
Theology of Suffering
Beliefs about why pain and hardship exist, and how they relate to faith
You were told your suffering was a “test” to grow your faith.
You believed that you were being punished whenever bad things happened.
You were praised for staying silent in pain because it meant you were strong in your faith.
Potential clinical implications (especially in high control settings)
Difficulty may arise in expressing pain or asking for help.
Self-blame can develop for events or hardships beyond personal control.
Shame may be felt for struggling instead of “suffering well.”